Running One-on-Ones
One-on-ones are the foundation of effective performance management. They create regular space for coaching, feedback, goal alignment, and relationship building.Setting up a one-on-one
To create a one-on-one in Topicflow:- Go to Meetings and click “New Meeting”
- Select “One-on-one” as the meeting type
- Choose the participant (your direct report or manager)
- Set the recurrence (typically weekly or bi-weekly)
- Optionally connect your calendar to sync meeting times
Before the meeting
Review context Topicflow automatically surfaces:- Open action items from previous meetings
- Recent work activity (commits, PRs, completed tasks, etc.)
- Stale or off-track goals
- Recent feedback given or received
- Progress on specific goals or projects
- Blockers or challenges
- Feedback to give or request
- Career development topics
- Team dynamics or process issues
- “What has [person] been working on recently?”
- “Are there any stale goals or overdue action items?”
- “What feedback has [person] received this quarter?”
During the meeting
Start with the human check-in Begin with how the person is doing, not just what they’re working on. Performance management works best when the relationship is strong. Work through the agenda Go through prepared topics, but stay flexible. If something important comes up, let the conversation go there. Take notes Capture key points, decisions, and observations in the meeting notes. These become a shared record that both participants can reference. Create action items When commitments are made, turn them into action items:- “I’ll review the design doc by Friday” → action item
- “Let’s schedule time with the product team” → action item
- “I’ll think about next quarter’s goals” → action item
After the meeting
Review and clean up notes Make sure action items are assigned and have due dates if needed. Share or summarize Notes are visible to both participants by default. If the conversation included decisions that affect others, you can share relevant points. Follow up on action items Open action items automatically surface in the next meeting, creating a natural accountability loop.Common one-on-one patterns
Manager-driven agendas (early in relationship)- Manager prepares most of the agenda
- Focus on clarity, expectations, and feedback
- Gradually shift ownership to the direct report
- Direct report owns the agenda and comes prepared
- Manager acts as coach, sounding board, and escalation path
- Topics tend to be strategic, forward-looking, and developmental
- Both participants add topics
- Mix of updates, coaching, feedback, and planning
- Responsive to what’s happening week-to-week
What to discuss in one-on-ones
Short-term (tactical)- Progress on current work
- Blockers and how to resolve them
- Coordination with other teams
- Immediate feedback
- Goal progress and adjustments
- Skill development
- Project ownership opportunities
- Process improvements
- Career aspirations
- Strengths and growth areas
- Organizational changes
- Big-picture alignment
How one-on-ones connect to performance
One-on-ones are where most performance management actually happens:- Continuous feedback replaces the need for surprise critiques in reviews
- Goal discussions keep objectives relevant and progress visible
- Coaching moments build skills over time, not just during reviews
- Relationship building makes difficult conversations possible
What’s next
Agendas, notes, and follow-ups
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